how I became me

Thursday, September 19, 2013





Top (similar): Forever 21, Skirt (similar): ASOS, Heels: OASAP, Bag: Target

Well hello!

I have some exciting news to share... if you didn't already see it... my new job! I just got hired (today) as an assistant buyer for GroopDealz. I am BEYOND excited. I may have screamed in my car. You can laugh. Let me just say that this has been my *dream* job pretty much my whole life. Well, at least since I developed a love for fashion. I am lucky and feel so blessed to be given this opportunity. EEEkk!!

Next item of business. I don't really talk personal talk much on here but, today I am!

When I was younger I didn't know who I was or where I stood. Kids were real mean to me throughout elementary and junior high for how I looked and what I wore (I was tall, gangly and super awkward). I wanted to fit in and wear what the "popular girls" were wearing. Well, it never happened and I felt like an outcast almost always. As I got older and developed my own weird style, I became more comfortable in my own skin, not trying to be perfect or wear what the "popular girls" are wearing. I realize i'm not top blogger status and I don't wear designer clothes, I don't have perfect long hair with white teeth, or flawless eyelashes and I'm most definitely not a size 2 (more like a size 10). I don't know how to do my makeup perfectly (nor do I want to look fake) so I just wear eye liner/ mascara with an occasional fun lipstick. I am just me! No fake or cover ups, just me, and I am proud of that!

I started this blog to share my style and show my personality through my outfits. I realize that most of my outfits might not appeal to most people. I realize a lot of my outfits are out there and too much for people. Well, sorry?! (not really). I am sure some people might like them once in a while and that is good enough for me. I never started this blog with the purpose of trying to impress other people or wear what everyone else is wearing. I don't have a "style" or a category I fit into. Depending on my mood, sometimes I want to be girly, sometimes I want to be grunge, and sometimes I just want to wear casual comfortable clothes. Isn't that how it should be? I don't think anyone needs to have a certain style and stick to it.

This blog has been sort of an outlet for me. From when I started to now, I have developed confidence and I have finally found out who I am. I get to share my weird style, I get to talk about fashion, and the best thing, I have made so many amazing friends. That alone, is worth it to me. I have met so many people and developed friendships with girls (not just bloggers) I would have never even crossed paths with otherwise. This blog is rewarding, fun and wonderful. Negativity just isn't allowed here. Sorry! :) If you don't like what you see, I don't think anyone is forcing you to stop by. Super simple. I love all my followers and I love all your sweet comments! I can't wait to continue to meet people and continue on with the greatest hobby ever! I am excited to see where it takes me, but I can promise you I will always be me!

What do you think? I would love to hear comments!

Have a great weekend!


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p.s. for a skirt like mine, see below :) 

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  1. LexSeptember 19, 2013 at 9:06 PM

    Being yourself is the greatest thing you can be. :) I feel like my style really changes from day to day, and I wouldn't have it any other way!

    PS - I've really loved following your blog for the past year, so thanks for posting!

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    1. Jalynn SchroederSeptember 19, 2013 at 9:21 PM

      I am so glad I'm not the only one who's style changes on a daily basis!!! And thank you so much for following along, it means a lot!

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  2. The MottsSeptember 19, 2013 at 9:58 PM

    i love your style! we all know i have no fashion sense so its great to see how you can pair things together that i would never think of doing! i also love that you give links to where you got you clothes or similar ones! i've gotten quite a few things that you have! :)

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    1. Jalynn SchroederSeptember 19, 2013 at 10:17 PM

      oh whatever you always look cute!! It makes me so happy that you have gotten things I have worn. That is what makes this fun! I love sharing my favorite finds! You need to share on Instagram or FB when you buy things I wear. I wanna see!! :)

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  3. Kristin Rose DavisSeptember 19, 2013 at 10:14 PM

    Love you girl! You've made me start to branch out!!!! And I'm so glad I met you!

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    1. Jalynn SchroederSeptember 19, 2013 at 10:18 PM

      No, I love you! and I am glad I am rubbing off on you a little :) So glad we met too! Blogger friends for life! haha :)

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  4. UnknownSeptember 19, 2013 at 10:25 PM

    You are the cutest! I honestly love how out there your outfits are. You keep things fun and exciting... you just follow you fashion instincts, which a lot of people are afraid to do. And if someone doesn't like it (though they should!) then that's their problem. Keep doing what you're doing! :)

    Jessica
    www.afternoonstyle.com

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    1. Jalynn SchroederSeptember 20, 2013 at 10:28 AM

      Thanks Jess!! I appreciate that! I try to keep things interesting, mostly because I have fun with it! :)

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  5. Cyn & VikSeptember 20, 2013 at 12:02 AM

    I love your style! Being you is the best thing you can do! Congratulations on getting your dream job!!!! Obviously they have good taste in stylists!!!!

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  6. Michelle {Jarrah Jungle}September 20, 2013 at 1:04 AM

    That is awesome congratulations! You are very lucky to work in an industry you obviously love and have a passion for :) well done

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    1. Jalynn SchroederSeptember 20, 2013 at 10:31 AM

      Thank you! I totally agree. I have been working in the mortgage industry and I def am not passionate about it so I am excite to wake up and look forward to my job! :)

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  7. VanderWoodsonSeptember 20, 2013 at 11:19 AM

    I couldn't be happier. In life, seeing your best friends succeed is like riding a bike for the first time; exhilarating, free and adds a spike of independence to the mix. Can't wait to celebrate with you. P.S. your signature style is amazing, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

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  8. UnknownSeptember 20, 2013 at 1:46 PM

    I am so happy for you! :) You are such a sweet girl and I LOVE your style - you can pull off anything. I am so glad we met and can't wait to hear more about your job. So much fun! Keep it up!

    xo
    Kati
    Glitz & Gold

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  9. UnknownOctober 3, 2013 at 2:33 PM

    Sorry this is soooo delayed! But I love this post cutie! So many girls are right there with you. Congrats on your new job! You are amazing and I am so glad you decided to blog your style! I was the same in high school, totally made me a stronger person. And unfortunately with fashion blogging the high school never ends ;) never change!

    Cayli

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